References – SN 47.14: Ukkacela 
Sutta / Saṁyutta Nikāya / SN 47: Satipaṭṭhānasaṁyutta / SN 47.14: Ukkacelasutta

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“I know parting with loved ones is a natural course of life, but deep sadness and grief arises when I reflect on that. Could you instruct on how to work with this grief? Is there a level of understanding when there is no grief? Thank you!” Answered by Ajahn Pasanno. [Grief ] [Naturalness] // [Recollection] [Recollection/Death] [Impermanence] [Kamma] [Goodwill]

Sutta: AN 5.57 Five Recollections (Chanting Book translation)

Suttas: SN 47.13, SN 47.14: The deaths of Sariputta and Moggallana. [Buddha/Biography] [Great disciples] [Death]

Quote: “Now I’m an orphan.” — Ajahn Chah. [Ajahn Chah] [Parents] [Wat Pah Pong] [Mae Chee]

2014 Thanksgiving Monastic Retreat, Session 3, Excerpt 8


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“When Sariputta and Moggallāna died, [the Buddha] expressed almost a sense of grief in the context of the absence from the assembly. I wonder how that fits with the idea of Nibbāna.” Answered by Ajahn Amaro. [Great disciples] [Death] [Buddha/Biography] [Grief] // [Pain] [Suffering] [Emotion] [Tranquility] [Theravāda]

Sutta: SN 47.14: Ukkacelā Sutta: “This assembly appears to me empty now....”

Sutta: SN 36.6: The Arrow.

Story: Ajahn Sumedho’s experience of his mother’s death. [Ajahn Sumedho] [Parents]

Readings from The Island [2025], Session 4, Excerpt 4